When striving for higher levels, it is important to know that you may stumble. When you stumble, ask yourself “What did I learn.”
It is so important to get feedback or learn a lesson in our failures andictories. When faced with a difficult situation, Do you run and hide? Do you dig in? You have a choice in the matter. You can either get bitter or get better. I have spent several days, wallowing in self pity, because truth hit me read between the eyes. I realize that I am not that great at some aspects of my life. I want to change.
Not changing, or being too stubborn to make a change, can cause pain. Emotional pain.
When you need a change in a certain area, you need to figure out how to replace a bad habit with a good habit. There is no way to totally eliminate a bad habit unless it is replaced by a good habit .This will require, patience and learning new lessons along the way. It is important too catalog your lessons. Journaling is a good way to change your habits. Lessons learned can be stored and revisited.