I had to deal with a difficult situation, today. Confronting others with difficult issues is never easy. Being a grown up is hard work. Facing those who hurt you or hurt someone you care about is not easy. Trying to figure out what to say to preserve the relationship and resolve the issue, is tricky. There is a fine line. You want to work the issue out with that person rather than offend them or hold on to your pain. Address the issue, don’t attack the person, look at their behavior, and let person know you still value them. If all else fails pray.