Seeing the best in every situation is not always easy. There are times when we can’t see the silver lining, in the clouds. Sometimes the negative situations are there to make us a better person. Becoming the best version of yourself, in the process of creating something that is challenging to you is for your benefit. Believe it or not.
I give speeches in a club. They immediately the speaker in the meeting. You get feedback. When you do get the feedback, you can use it to create a better speech the next time.
The test or the trial is not always obvious in our mundane rituals. They are there. I have had my days when I wanted to throw something out the window. I did not do it. I try to think of every little trial as God shaping me to be the person, he wants me to become.
If I am a better version of my self and have a better outlook on life, then I may influence others to be optimistic as well. Patience and discipline are also key player in becoming an Optimist. I believe it is best to make the most of any situation. I always have. There have been times when I forgot the lesson.